Nepal and Traveling Mark Doughty on 22 Jul 2006
Sometimes, EVERYTHING goes wrong!
It appears that fate was determined that Kahlil and I wouldn’t get to Everest base camp and equally determined that we should have as bad a time as possible trying to get there. In my last post I wrote that we would be leaving for the trek the next day. This as it turned out didn’t happen because Kahlil got sick. This was ok though because in a couple of days he had declared himself fit again and we rebooked the bus tickets and arrived in Jiri only 3 days later than we had originally planned.
We set out on following day morning. The thing with the first week of the Everest base camp trek, is that if you start in Jiri, you spend the first week going up and down about a 1000m each day. Having done our first 1000m up and then down again we reached a town called Shivalaya where we stayed the night.
I woke up the next morning to find that we wouldn’t be going any further that day. During the night Kahlil had developed a temperature, a headache and a cough which sounded like he was about to lose a lung. He slept most of the day but the next day he was no better. In fact he was worse. I asked the people running the guesthouse if a doctor was available. The doctor, it turned out was in the next down (about a 4 hour walk away), so his father came to take a look. I was never able to figure out if the doctor’s father had any medical training or it was simply the fact he was the doctors father that qualified him to come. It’s seems a bit like someone might asking my Mum about a computer problem. (I have to use my Mum as the example as my Dad actually knows quite a lot about computers). Anyway the doctor’s father took Kahlil’s temperature. It was 102 degrees (which despite not being a doctor myself I knew was high).
The doctor himself arrived that evening. As anyone who been to Asia knows, personal space and privacy is virtually non existent and it’s no different if your sick. Luckily for the locals the room was kind of setup like a viewing gallery. Anyone who was interested could come and stand on the balcony outside and stare in at Kahlil though the windows. We managed to keep the room itself free from complete strangers and it was only myself, Kahlil, the doctor, the doctors father, the man and woman who ran the guesthouse and a couple of their kids who were allowed in. While the doctor was examining Kahlil I spotted another old lady sitting on the bed. Someone must have noticed my curious glance at her as it was quickly explained that she was the doctor’s mother (this apparently explained the need for her to be there too). It didn’t take long for the doctor to diagnose the problem. Kahlil had Pneumonia. The doctor basically told Kahlil to continue taking the antibiotic that he had already started taking the previous day and gave him a few other tablets as well. Other than that we just had to wait until he got better.
The problem was that we weren’t just waiting for him to get a little bit better we had to wait until he was well enough to walk the 1000m up and down back to Jiri. You can read Kahlil’s account of the joys of having Pneumonia when he puts up his post. It certainly didn’t look like a fun experience and the recovery was very slow. Meanwhile as you might imagine I was struggling to entertain myself. Ensuring that Kahlil had everything he needed didn’t take up much of my time. He only really needed sleep and the occasional bottle of water. The family obviously considered Kahlil their responsibility which meant that I was virtually made redundant.
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On the first day I took myself for walk and explored the local area. The rest of the time I was forced to entertain myself with a pack of cards. This was the only entertainment I brought with me apart from my MP3 player as I had foreseen weeks of healthy exercise separated only by meals and deep sleep. I was surprised by how few things I could thing to do with a deck of cards. The only single player card game I could remember was Solitaire. I couldn’t even remember FreeCell, after all those hours of playing it on computers when I was supposed to be doing something more important. In the end I played patients a lot. In fact I played it every day for several hours a day. I did think of a few other things to do with the cards. I added up the values of all the cards in the pack (several times to be sure). Another favorite was to shuffle the deck and then deal 3 cards, calculate what the value of the 3 cards multiplied together was, then deal another 3 cards and so on. Needless to say my mental arithmetic has dramatically improved. Of course there was also the classic building prymids of cards as well. (You can see the photo). I would have enjoyed getting on with some kung fu practice but outside it was either raining, or so hot I would be distracted by watching my skin turn red as I watched it. The only reading material we had with us was the insurance policy which, despite being rather boring, did pass an hour or two and was still better than sitting on the balcony staring at the river which was how I spent the remainder of my time.
The family who ran the guesthouse was really great. They looked after us really well, in fact almost too well. The longer we were there, the more attention they paid to our well being and the more they started to interfere with our lives. They seemed to be under the impression that as English people we were completely incapable of knowing what was best for ourselves or doing anything much for ourselves as well. I would come back from a short walk to find all my stuff hanging up outside. Each mealtime they would carefully watch how much I was eating and try and force more down me. I would try explaining that one large plate of rice was plenty, when the only thing I had done since the last large plate of rice was stare at a river. They generally accepted this but I’m sure they didn’t really believe that I could be full after only one large plate. They of course all ate many plates of rice each meal. If I were at home under these circumstances I would simply be able to explain to my family to leave me alone and let me look after myself. My family would understand that it wasn’t that I ungrateful for their care but was simply going crazy with boredom staring at a river all day long and it would be better to leave me alone. I did really appreciate the effort they were making but felt it was just a little over the top. Anyway, being English I didn’t tell them to go and jump in the river, which I would have liked to do (not through any personal dislike but simply through a desire to make the river a bit more interesting). Instead I was frightfully polite and thanked them a lot for all their help, told them they were being very good to us and then ran away to see how the river was doing.
Initially this boredom only affected me. When your lying in bed with a fever of 102 degrees your primary concern isn’t how to keep your self occupied, you have quite enough to be getting on with trying to get better. Slowly though, Kahlil started to get better and the family started to force feed him rice, make him go for walks when his brain was still doing back flips inside his skull and fuss around more than was necessary. Exactly a week after we first arrived Kahlil was a lot better and made my day by saying that he thought he was well enough to make the walk back. The father and daughter of the gu
esthouse walked with us back to Jiri carrying Kahlil’s stuff. The father continuously telling us exactly where to step and which stone each of us should sit on when we stopped for rests. By this point we were both so happy to be escaping that we didn’t even try to explain that we had a fair amount of experience walking and were quite capable of choosing our own stone to sit on. We just did as we were told.
As you can imagine we were very happy to arrive back in Jiri. Unfortunately the experience was not yet over though. The next day we discovered that there was no ‘express’ bus back to Kathmandu only a ‘local’ bus. This meant that instead of the type of bus we had arrived on, where everyone has a seat and there is only a minimal amount of boxes and other stuff in the gangway, we would have to get the local bus. The local bus is the cheaper alternative that, that takes longer. When all the seats are full people cram on with their sacks of onions and live chickens and fill all the space available. Then a few more people squeeze in. Then a few more. Meanwhile the roof of the bus also completely fills up, so the remaining people who wish to come along just hand off the side of the bus. On our bus there was only one chicken and that was quickly put in a cupboard above people’s heads and I never saw it again. There were plenty of people. Our bus to Jiri (which had seemed pretty bad at the time but now seemed like positive luxury) had taken about 7 hours. We knew that this one would take longer, much longer.
Luckily not everyone was going to Kathmandu like us and gradually the bus got less crowded and we could breath again. Then it started raining once more and everyone on the roof came inside so we were back to where we started. I’m not even going to go into the pain caused by sitting in a seat with no back support because the seat was broken. We had to stop once to change a tire but this seems to happen on most bus journeys. After 11 hours we knew we were close to Kathmandu but then we hit traffic. It turned out there had been an accident and that the bus would not reach Kathmandu till the next day. We were told we were welcome to sleep in the bus. There was no way we were sleeping in the bus. It was incredibly uncomfortable and stunk of sick. We got our bags and walked a few km to get past the accident. Then a few more km and found some guys with a van and paid them to take us the rest of the way. We finally reached Thamel. What a relief
Well that’s about everything. If you got slightly bored reading all that, think how I felt waiting a week with nothing to do. I’ve decided against reattempting the trek. Hopefully I’ll come back to Nepal sometime soon and have another go at it then. So that’s it. I’m going to be booking my flight home today, so I guess I’ll see you all soon.